Every coin has two sides

"Every thing in the world has two sides!  The coin has two sides! The look from one side is different from the other side! Looking at things in one angle is always bad!  we should examine the other side also!  A man found a purse unclaimed on the road!! On opening it he found Rs 99/- in it!  Instead of thanking his luck at the unexpected windfall he was depressed! He told himself that if only one more rupee had been there it would have made Rs 100/- He was not satisfied as it was one rupee short of Rs 100/-! This is human tendency! They are not contented with what god has given them! They aspire for more and more and feel depressed and disappointed!  Every thing in the world depends on the way in which we look at things! Our ambition, desires and wants color our vision!  When we wear colored glasses and look at the world , it appears blue, red , or dark!  The original color of things is covered up and things appear different from what they really are! A person is either optimistic or pessimistic according to his mind set! When you think you are not confident, you become not confident!! if you think you can achieve some thing great and try at it, you shall surely be able to achieve!  Every thing depends on the MIND and its set up!  It is said, " manaeva manushyanam karanam bandha mokahayoh!" it is the MIND alone that is responsible for attachment and liberation or emancipation!  Happiness in Life is based on the change in the way at looking at things! Quarrels, misunderstandings, bitterness and physical fights between the husband and wife and others shall melt away and end in mutual agreement and accord if only there is a change in the outlook of a person! Lack of this very simple technique leads to irreparable loss and disgust and depression in Life!  So, Let there be totality in looking at things not only on one side!!" It is foolish to stick on to your own view and trying to establish it! we know the saying  " loko bhinna ruchihi" Different people have different tastes! We have to understand that to appreciate others. If we can adjust and accommodate to this principle, life can be led happily!